📄 Abstract
Human beings enter the world in a state of innate authenticity—unfiltered, expressive, and emotionally transparent. However, as children grow, this natural authenticity often collides with social expectations that prioritize conformity and performance over emotional truth. This paper explores how the need for attachment in early life fosters the suppression of authentic emotions and the emergence of a “performing self.” It examines the psychological, physiological, and societal repercussions of this dynamic, particularly within family and educational systems that reinforce conditional acceptance. Finally, it proposes that healing and cultural renewal begin through the restoration of authenticity in individual and collective life.
📚 How to Cite:
Bal Krishan, Brinder Kumar , THE PRICE WE PAY FOR FITTING IN , Volume 10 , Issue 10, october 2025, EPRA International Journal of Research & Development (IJRD) , DOI: https://doi.org/10.36713/epra24538